When your baby had infant pyloric stenosis (“PS”), the surgery marked the end of a difficult time for you and your newborn treasure… Right?
If that’s true of you as parents or you as the baby, you belong to the truly blessed ones – at least in this respect!
Most doctors and websites tell the parents that there are no long-term problems after PS and its surgery (pyloromyotomy). Only a minority of the websites I have seen are a little more careful, assuring us that “most” babies will have no more problems. None go into detail about that “most”.
In 20 years of trawling the web I have yet to find Continue reading “Long-term hazards”
Can a baby remember trauma experienced in her or his first years?
In times past the answer was an immediate and insistent “No”.
Before about 1990 it was commonly believed that because virtually nobody can recall and describe any event from early childhood, let alone early infancy, be it happy or troubling, a baby makes and keeps no record of anything before what we can later recall and express in words.
This of course sounded very reassuring and comforting!
- The serious mistakes some parents make when a baby is very young – hey! “They leave no memory, no record, no damage.”
- Family, life and health dramas which a little one survives – “No need to worry about it affecting baby.”
- Separation from mother, adoption, foster relationships – “None of this will affect let alone harm a little one.”
- Will we have our baby son circumcised “so he looks like his dad”? “Go ahead, I’m fine, no worries!”
- My baby needs life-saving surgery but anesthetising a baby is risky – “Just go ahead, she won’t really suffer.”
- A baby’s screams (obviously from extreme pain) under the knife upsets a young theatre nurse – “Hey, he won’t remember anything.”
Continue reading ““No brain – no pain” That’s insane!”